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Many people are completely unaware of the number of funeral planning resources that are needed when a loved one dies. This is because the time they spend identifying these resources and making plans to use them is also a very emotionally charged time. They are usually dealing with the loss of a loved one that is still fresh and painful. Pre-planning is the best way to make the most of the available assistance and ensure that one’s final wishes are carried out to the letter.
There are some important funeral planning decisions that must be made. Is the deceased going to be buried or cremated? Where will this take place? What sort of service will be desired? What sort of coffin will be needed? These are just the practical decisions that come up.
Others include whether or not to have a public viewing and whether or not to have the deceased embalmed. This last has a direct impact on the amount of time after death one must be laid to final rest.
Funeral directors are skilled in guiding families through the maze of decisions, despite their grief. However, people often do not make the most practical decisions at this time. They can end up paying much more than necessary for the services, coffin, vault, and more.
In order to maximize the use of available funeral resources, one should seek out a funeral director and make arrangements in advance. This will allow the one who will be making use of these resources to have his/her own say in the matter and avoid disagreements or mistakes made by family members. It also allows one to have direct control over the amount that will be spent on his/her final disposition.
Many are unaware that they can choose their coffin, vault, urn, or other vessel while still alive and place the item on “lay away” until needed. They can also name the type of ceremony to be performed, whether or not to embalm, who will speak at the service, pall bearers, and anything else to do with the service in advance.
It is also possible to begin making payments to cover the cost of the service and associated materials while still living. Once everything has been prearranged and the price set, one can pay the balance in full or begin paying toward it in small increments until paid in full. This gives direct control of the amount spent, despite inflation and other factors that could raise the price in the future.
Funeral resources vary from location to location. However, there are many options available that could be better taken advantage of by pre-planning. Making arrangements in advance gives one more direct control over what happens to him/her after death and saves the family from having to make some very difficult decisions during a period of strong emotions. Instead, the family can begin the grieving process and friends can pay their final respects in a dignified manner. Pre-planning also controls the amount paid to take advantage of the resources available.
Whether you realize it or not, much of your life is now digital. It is important to plan for what will happen to these assets after you pass away…
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