Helpful Guide to Writing Eulogies

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Helpful Guide to Writing EulogiesIf you have been asked to write a eulogy for a deceased person it is a great honor. Writing eulogies can be very difficult, especially if you have never written one before. However, no matter how worried you may be to write and deliver the eulogy, do not turn down the opportunity because it is a tremendous distinction. Though it may be the most difficult speech to deliver and brings about a great responsibility, it is an excellent way to honor your loved one and show everyone how much they meant to you.

While writing eulogies may seem to be difficult, especially if the person has little experience writing a speech, there are products available in the market to help the speaker be at ease and write a personal and heartfelt eulogy. We recommend the following 6-step Guide to Writing and Delivery a Eulogy. Click the following link to learn more about this excellent product.

Steps for Writing Eulogies to Loved Ones

1. Prepare yourself – It is important to begin the eulogy when you are in the right frame of mind. Writing a eulogy to someone you love that has passed away is very difficult. It is important that you set aside some quiet time to collect your thoughts, relax, and then begin writing the eulogy.

2. Plan the eulogy – The first step to writing the eulogy is to decide what type of eulogy you want to write. Do you want it to be serious or light-hearted? Do you want to share personal stories? Do you want it to be in chronological order?

3. Gather information – After you have decided what to write you will need to collect the information. Begin by thinking of memories you shared with the deceased. Looking through photos will help. Next, you can contact family members and close friends and ask them to provide you information on the deceased.

4. Write the eulogy – Now that you have all of the information for the eulogy, it is time to write it. Begin by taking the information and turning it into a rough draft. The next step is to read over the draft and turn it into a well-composed speech. It may take you a few re-writes until you get a speech that you are happy with.

5. Rehearse and refine – When the final draft is complete it is time to rehearse the speech. Read it to yourself a few times and refine the speech as necessary. Next, you will want to read the speech out loud to better prepare you for reading the eulogy at the funeral. You may also want to ask a friend or family member if they will listen to the speech because they can help by suggesting changes.

6. Deliver the eulogy – Now that you have practiced the speech, it is time to deliver it at the funeral. Try not to stress too much about memorizing the speech. We recommend printing a copy of the speech and having it with you. The friends and family will not care if you read the speech or get emotional during the speech. If you begin to get overwhelmed with emotions, simply pause and take a deep breath then continue.

 

As mentioned, writing eulogies is difficult. Writing the eulogy with honesty and from the heart makes it a lot easier. The best thing that you can do is to share your personal experiences with the loved one to everyone at the funeral. What made the person special to you and what qualities did you appreciate the most? Recall the memories you shared together and why they were important.

Reading a eulogy at a funeral gives you a chance to celebrate the life of the person who died, share the memories that happened, inspire other people, and ease the feelings of pain of the survivors. Writing it at first may be difficult, and while delivering it may make the eulogist break down and cry, the audience will understand. Writing eulogies is not easy and delivering them is even more difficult; however, it is a rewarding task and saying a few words at your loved ones funeral will be appreciated by everyone in attendance.

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Jason Ropchan is the Founder and CEO of Your Tribute, an online resource for Funeral and Grief information and products. He has more than 15 years experience in the funeral industry developing and marketing funeral technology. He has worked with thousands of funeral homes worldwide to help them provide online memo...